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Sabtu, Desember 22, 2012

You're the Best Mom !!



Mothers Day !!!


A Heart Just like Mom
I May not pray often, and I may not pray enough
but when I do, this is all I ask of you..

God please give me a heart just like hers
She loves unconditionally, no matter what, no matter who..

God give me courage to be like her
She's very brave, she makes me unafraid..

God give me wisdom just like hers
She knows everything, big and small, she's there to help through it all..

God give me strength just like hers
She's been knocked down, yet she stands strong for another round..

God give me beauty just like hers
When she smiles it gives me that feeling that everything will be okay, 
and all my problems disappear for awhile....

God give me generosity just like hers
She helps the helpless, she never thinks of herself and she's so 
un-selfish....

God- someday, if I'm at least half the mom she was to me, I'll know that you were listening On the day that I prayed. 


MOTHER !!!


If I could give you diamonds
for each tear you cried for me.
if I could five you sapphires
for each truth you've helped me see.
If I could give you rubies
for the heartache that you've known
If I could give you pearls
for the wisdom that you've shown. 
Then you'll have a treasure, mother,
that would mount up to the skies
That would almost match
the sparkle in your kind and loving eyes. 
But I have no pearls, no diamonds,
As I'm sure you're well aware
So I'll give you gifts more precious
My devotion, love and care. 



Hindari dan Konsumsi !!!

HINDARI !!!










Mulas perut hanya satu gejala anda mungkin memiliki penyakit asam lambung. Orang yang menderita asam lambung mungkin juga pernah merasakan dada seperti terbakar, ulu hati sakit, batuk kering, dan kesulitan menelan makanan.

Ada beberapa jenis makanan yang perlu anda hindari jika menerita penyakit asam lambung. Berikut dikutip dari SymptomFind, 
Kamis (20/12).


1. Makanan terlalu pedas hanya satu dari sekian banyak makanan yang perlu dihindari bagi mereka yang menderita asam lambung.

2. Makanan asam, seperti buah tomat, jeruk, dan bawang juga kurang baik jika banyak dikonsumsi penderita asam lambung.

3. Makanan lemak tinggi. Ini bisa mengendurkan otot. Penderita asam lambung harus mempunyai otot yang kuat untuk menjaga kadar asam di perut anda keluar normal dari kerongkongan anda. Makanan berlemak tinggi misalnya daging kerbau, makaroni dan keju, kentang goreng, keripik kentang, brownies, donat, dan chicken nugget perlu anda hindari.

4. Minuman beralkohol, soda, dan minuman berkafein, seperti kopi, teh, dan coklat panas. Cobalah anda minum minuman lain, terutama air putih untuk menjaga kadar asam lambung anda tetap normal.

5. Daun mint bisa meringankan penderita asam lambung. Tak ada salahnya anda mengunyah sepotong kecil daun seledri yang biasanya ditambahkan pada sup.


KONSUMSI !!!



Asam lambung bisa menyebabkan penyakit kronis, seperti asma, fibrosis paru atau kanker tenggorokan. Anda yang menderita penyakit ini mungkin perlu menghindari makanan terlalu pedas, buah dan sayuran yang mengandung asam, dan makanan lemak tinggi.

Untungnya, masih banyak makanan lezat lainnya yang aman bagi anda penderita asam lambung. Berikut dikutip dari SymptomFind, Kamis (20/12).

1. Pilihlah daging tanpa lemak, seperti dada ayam tanpa kulit, daging sapi yang ramping, dan ikan. Anda lebih baik memilih makanan ringan ketimbang makanan pedas.

2. Buah dan sayuran yang tak terlalu banyak mengandung asam di antaranya apel, pisang, stroberi, kentang panggang, brokoli, kubis, kacang polong, kacang hijau, wortel, dan zucchini. Produk susu dan keju rendah lemak masih bisa anda konsumsi.

3. Biji-bijian khusus, seperti sereal gandum, outmeal, dan beras juga aman bagi penderita asam lambung.

Makanan-makanan tersebut tak hanya membuat anda lepas dari kondisi asam lambung, tapi tubuh anda juga memperoleh gizi cukup. Misalnya karbohidrat, protein, vitamin, dan nutrisi lainnya.

Makanan-makanan tersebut memberi manfaat kesehatan yang banyak. Termasuk di dalamnya membuat metabolisme tubuh lebih baik, sistem kekebalan tubuh kuat, dan kemampuan tubuh mencegah penyakit jantung dan kanker.

Bagi penderita asam lambung, refluks sering terjadi saat mereka berbaring untuk tidur. Untuk mencegah hal ini, pastikan anda untuk menyelesaikan makan malam anda minimal tiga jam sebelum tidur. Ini dilakukan agar tubuh punya cukup waktu untuk mencerna makanan.

Selain itu, makan makanan dalam potongan besar dalam posisi duduk juga bisa memicu refluks asam lambung. Sebab ini menciptakan tekanan di perut. Ada baiknya anda memotong kecil-kecil makanan anda sebelum menyantapnya.

Alangkah baiknya jika anda tak memaksakan makan dalam porsi banyak sekaligus. Makanalah dalam porsi kecil saja dan anda bisa melakukannya beberapa kali dalam sehari. Perubahan gaya hidup ini dapat mencegah risiko lebih besar yang dapat ditimbulkan asam lambung. Ini juga merupakan gaya hidup sehat.






Jumat, Juli 06, 2012


Am I in Love? and How to Know if I Really in Love?




It is a very common question, "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. This can get confusing when you are a teen because romantic love is a relatively new concept for you and you don't know what to expect. You are overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures. They are confusing. What is love? What makes you want a romantic relationship with one person and not another? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? These questions can't be easily answered.


One of the most confusing quasi-love feelings is lust. Lust is a very powerful, very intense feeling of physical attraction toward another person. Lust is mainly sexual in nature - the attraction is superficial based on instant chemistry rather than genuine caring. Usually we lust after people we do not know well, people we still feel comfortable fantasizing about. It is very common for people to confuse lust for love. But why? What is it about lust and love that make them so easy to mix up? If lust is all about sex, how can a relationship without sex be about lust? Teens struggle with this because they see lust in the Biblical sense, but lust isn't that sinister. Lust is about physical attraction and acting ONLY on physical attraction. Love is about much more than that. Yet many teens (and to be fair, many adults) confuse an intense attraction for some sort if divine love. For teens, since feelings of attraction are still new and since pop-culture sells sex and love as one package, it is very easy to get the two mixed up.

Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. When you are in love it is as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. It is the best of both worlds! Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Love is not about jealousy. It is not about conflict. It is not about testing. Love is a positive feeling. If it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity or spitefulness it is not really love but merely a pale copy. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love should feel good. It should not feel bad. Love should make you want to be a better person, it should not lead you to do something self destructive. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow. Love is a good thing. Anything less is lust, deep friendship or attraction. So the sappiness aside, the question remains, how can you tell you are in love?

There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with7 of the following 9 statements you are probably in love.

1. You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings 
     are returned in kind.
2. The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
3. If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you
    or hurt your relationship.
4. Nothing makes you feel as serene as when you and your partner are together.
5. When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you
    always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your
    true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
6. Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your
     family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason
    and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
7. Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
8. You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
9. If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without
    the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.



Minggu, Mei 13, 2012

Look !!





"Jangan menilai buku dari sampulnya"
(Don't judge a book from the cover)


Pepatah diatas mungkin sudah akrab sekali dg kita. Malah sepertinya sejak SD sudah kita pelajari di pelajaran Bahasa Indonesia. Kata-kata itu memang mempunyai makna konotasi yg cukup. Yaitu kita jangan menilai sesuatu hanya dari penampilannya saja. Baik itu menilai sesorang maupun suatu hal lainnya. banyak hal yang meskipun cantik diluarnya, tapi sesungguhnya tidak sebaik yang kita kira. Dan ada pula yang tidak terlalu cantik, tetapi di dalamnya mempunyai kekuatan yg sangat besar.

Setiap manusia membutuhkan teman dalam hidupnya, siapapun dia. Tapi terkadang dalam proses mencari teman tidak banyak orang yg dapat menemukan teman yg sejati, yg mau mengerti dan memahami satu sama lain. Menurut seorang ahli psikologis, David J. Lieberman, dalam mencari teman sejati ada beberapa cara untuk mengetes apakah seseorang itu merupakan teman sejati atau hanya berpura-pura menjadi teman. Anda dapat mengukur yg Anda anggap teman sejati ternyata tidak.

1. Perhatian

Salah satu kinerja dalam menilai seseorang adalah PERHATIANNYA. Katakan padanya hal penting yg terjadi dalam hidup Anda dan lihat apakah dia menanggapinya atau mencari tau lebih jauh.

2. Kesetiaan

Ceritakan sebuah rahasia seorang teman dekat Anda dan lihat apakah dia berkomentar atau tidak. teman sejati tau arti kepercayaan dalam hubungan. Pastikan bahwa dia tampak keberatan karna Anda menceritakan rahasia seorang teman pada orang lain.

3. Kebanggaan

Seorang teman sejati akan bangga dg prestasi Anda, bukannya iri dengan kesuksesan Anda. Lihat pula bila mendatangi Anda ketika Anda menerima berita baik, bukan hanya berita buruk. Bukan sebaliknya, dia hanya mendatangi Anda untuk menghibur ketika Anda menerima berita buruk.

4. Kejujuran

Teman sejati selalu mau memberitahukan hal-hal yg tidak ingin Anda dengar.

5. Penghargaan

Katakan kepadanya bahwa ada sesuatu yg menyenagkan atau sesuatu yg baik yg sedang terjadi dalam hidup Anda. Lihatlah, apakah dia mendesak Anda untuk menceritakannya atau tidak. Teman sejati akan menghormati harapan-harapan Anda dan memberi Anda kesempatan untuk meraihnya tanpa memaksakan rasa keingintahuannya. Dia mungkin akan terus menyinggungnya karna tertarik, tetapi dia tidak akan serta merta dan terus menerus mendesak Anda untuk menceritakannya apabila Anda sudah menegaskan bahwa Anda tidak ingin menceritakannya sekarang

6. Pengorbanan

Apakah dia mau mengorbankan sesuatu jika hal itu bisa membuat Anda senang? Relakah dia mengorbankan kesenangannya sendiri untuk kebahagiaan Anda? Perhatikan apakah dia berpikir atau berencana untuk membantu Anda ataukah dia tampak mendahulukan dan berusaha menyelamatkan kepentingannya sendiri.




Senin, Maret 19, 2012

Salahkah Diriku !!





Salahkan diriku..
Ketika dengan lancang hati ku mulai merindukan mu..
Jiwa ku selalu butuh bayangan mu..
dan raga ku mulai terbuai oleh sikapmu..
Salahkan diriku..
Ketika dengan beraninya hati ku mulai mengagumi mu..
Jiwaku selalu butuh senyummu..
Dan mataku selalu ingin memandang mu..
Salahkan diriku..
Ketika dengan dashyatnya hatiku mulai menggilaimu..
Jiwaku tak pernah melupakan mu..
Dan tanganku ingin selalu membelai mu..
Lagi-lagisalahkan saja diriku..
Ketika hatiku mulai bergetar saat didepan mu..
Bibir ku selalu terkunci rapat..
Dan lidah ku tiba-tiba terasa kelu..
Sehingga tak ada kata yang terucap saat aku di dekatmu..
Sekarang juga kau boleh salah kan diriku..
Saat hati ku mulaiselalu berbicara dengan jiwaku..
Saat jiwaku selalu berkata pada ku..
Saat aku pun akhirnya percaya..
Aku MenCintai mu..
Sekarang aku, hatiku, jiwaku dan seluruh ragaku bertanya padamu..
Salahkah ketika semua pesonamu.. luluhkan hatiku..
Ketika semua gerakmu menggoda jiwamu..
Ketika aku sadar akan rasa ini..
Rasa yg begitu membara di hatii ini..





Rabu, Maret 07, 2012

Long Distance ??? No Problem !!!







"Long Distance??? it's no problem for me, cause it can be nice experience to be a good personal which having big faithfulness"

      Cinta itu indah dan dapat dirasakan dg hati. Namun apa jadinya jika cinta tersebut dibatasi oleh ruang. Terbatas oleh jarak yg cukup jauh. Mungkinkah dapat bersatu?
Kadang orang berfikir bahwa hubungan jarak jauh bisa menjadi masalah besar atau tantangan besar dalam suatu hubungan yg kita jalani.
      Tapi menurut aii semua itu bisa diatasi dan dipertahankan, yg penting kita usaha dan menjaga hubungan itu dg baik. Hubungan jarak jauh juga disebut suatu hal yg paling menakutkan, tapi itu semua tetep tergantung yg menjalaninya. Pada hakekatnya, suatu hubungan bukan merupakan persoalan jarak tpi suatu ikatan batin, Jadi hubungan jarak jauh mempunyai nilai positif di mana kita saling percaya dan mengukur sejauh mana kesetiaan pasangan kita. pada intinya kembali pada yg menjalani hubungan tersebut.

Udah siap ?? :D
tet teret tereeeeeeetttt !!!!!!
Welcome to my experience..

      Berawal dari pertemanan yg ada di salah satu jejaring sosial yg aii punya, ada beberapa orang yg kindness sama aii, i like it. Saat itu aii juga sedang terpuruk dalam kesedihan karna abis disakitin m seseorang yg aii syaaang. Pengen banged aii bisa senyum ceria seperti biasa, karna aii tidak bisa senyum sedikitpun saat itu. Cukup lama aii bersemayam dalam keterpurukan itu, tak ada semangad sedikitpun.
      Someday, aii kembali ke akun itu dan aii mendapat temen yg kindness sama aii meskii sbelumnya juga sudah kenal di akun yg sama pula :)
Beberapa hari kita "wall to wall" dan bersendagurau di akun tersebut. Beberapa hari kemudian kita saling tukar nomor haPe. Dia yg udah bisa buat aii senyum lagii, dia yg udah kembalikan senyum ceria aii, kembalikan hari-hari aii yg berwarna.
      Sejak itu, aii mulai merasakan benih-benih cinta di hati aii, aii syang sama dia, dia juga bilang ke aii kalau dia juga syang sama aii. Finally, we make a relationship although we must "Long Distance". Tapi Long Distance bukan menjadi masalah besar buat kita dalam menjalin sebuah hubungan, karna yg paling penting dalam sebuah hubungan adalah rasa syang dan cinta yg begitu tulus. Keputusan kita adalah jalani apa yg ada, yg penting udah sama-sama syang&cinta. Bagi kita kesetiaan dan rasa saling percaya itu paling penting, karna itu mencegah kita untuk menghianati pasangan kita. Walau jarak dan waktu memisahkan kita, kita harus yakin bahwa apabila Allah meridhoi, kita akan dipertemukan dalam suatu ruang kebahagiaan:)
      Dia begitu berarti buat aii, dia yg selalu mewarnai dan menyinari hari-hari aii, diia sinar paling terang yg ada dhatii aii, akan aii jaga sinar itu sebaik mungkin agar tidak meredup sedikitpun dan tetap bersinar terang di hati aii :)
Syukuri dan jalani aja apa yg ada, udah syaaaaang+cntaaaaa bgd m dy, Luv u :* :')




For you nih :)

Aku metitip hati ku pada mu,
Aku menitip cinta ku pada mu,
Aku menitip rindu ku pada mu,
Tolong dijaga sayang karena aku akan tetap setia :*




Selasa, Maret 06, 2012

Before and After


            Andien and Jimmy are a couple. They have relationship during one year and they have commitment to keep that relationship. Before they made relationship, Jimmy said to Andien that someday he would go to Japan, he got job contract but he didn’t know when he must go there. She understood about it and she is promise if she will wait him until he is finishing his job. They are always together when they have free times or holiday.
They are having any similarity likes hobby, favorite foods, habitual and the others. They are also always smile, make some jokes, and ignorant. When he went to Surabaya, they are always communicating and he went home every week. After he knew when he would go to Japan in July, he asked Andien to be his fiancée and she accepted his request. Then, they were making an agenda for that event. But next month, his teacher said to him if the departure in Japan is canceled up to September or October.
August, he got report from his teacher if they would go to Japan at 12 October 2010. Before he went to Japan, he got 2 month for holiday and prepared. Andien and Jimmy are happy because they knew when he would go there. When 11 October 2010, they went to Surabaya because he must went to Surabaya that day but all of family went to Surabaya at 12 October 2010. They were enjoying that moment with jokes, suggestion, and the others. At 6 p.m. they must go to airport because the plane would take-off at 8.15 p.m. but he said goodbye to all of family at 7.30 p.m. because he would check in at 8p.m. She tried to not cry but when he stood up in front of her, she couldn’t hold back the tears and then crying.

Around of 3 or 4 years, she is always crying if she remember it. Someday when she opened a social network, she looked if he sent a message to her. She is very happy, he gave her a report. So she didn’t afraid because she knew his condition. Every week, he is always giving information to all of the family included me. Now, she can smile again. But she can’t go anywhere, because she accustomed if she go anywhere, she is always going with him. If she goes out with her friends, they are just taking some picture for adding the collection.
Andien and Jimmy are having commitment for keep the relationship when he is staying in here or in Japan. In fact, he doesn’t self to leave her for go there, but he must go there for doing his job. She understands about it and she just positive thinking about it. She thinks, no problems if he must go there for finish his duty because it also for the future and their schedules.









Tears Behind My Eyes




When you look into my eyes, they may seem to be empty,
my eyes are full of tears, although you don't see anything.

So many times my hearth has been filled with pain,
and deep behind my eyes are pockets of tears that are ready to fall down like rain.

I know at times I may appear to be tough,
but sometimes to bear the pain and heartache can be too much.

Sometimes, I try and hide the tears that I cried just last night,
The tears that soaked my pillow wet long past morning first light.

I know how it feels to be pushed away by someone you love,
I'm not afraid to admit my tears because I know that there's a far greater love,
one that comes from above.

Happiness too will be mine,
Then I'll keep my head up and eyes towards the skies,
and never allowing anyone to see the tears behind my eyes.








by a1thapo1
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